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Your friend speaks about him all the time, all the time, ladies we know the type. As the ‘good’ friend that you are, you listen. You can tell she is head over heels, she loves him, she just doesn’t want to say it too soon, and you understand that. This guy he treats her right, makes her laugh, a gentleman, his 5’8 that’s tall for her, but short for you, his the chilled out type, you prefer the more talkative type, his dark….she goes on and on with his description. He is not quite your type but there you are comparing, wondering why it’s not you who met this ‘prince charming’ instead of her. Short guys are a deal breaker for you, but yet there you are imagining how you would love such a guy, with a fake smile plastered on your face, you continue to listen.
Finally, the day is here, when you get to meet the ‘boyfriend’. They have been together three months now. You’re in a restaurant in town, with your friend, waiting for him to arrive. Right in the middle of conversation, her face lights up, she is facing the entrance, so he must have arrived. You are sitting opposite from her, so you just sit and wait. He gets to your table, she stands up to hug him, and then the introduction…. He hugs you too, you even wore flat shoes so he wouldn’t feel so short…..No! its so you will not feel so tall. He smells so good, you think to yourself, and he dresses well, expensive taste. He sits right next to her. You all order, and the conversation continues….he doesn’t speak much, under other circumstances you would find that annoying, but today your are intrigued
It’s like they are having a silent conversation right there. They are both smitten and so happy, and they don’t make you feel like a third wheel. But there you are wondering why it’s her and not you. Suddenly you forget this is your friend, she has been there for you in ways you cannot begin to explain. You have cried together and laughed together. But at that moment all you want is her man. Time flies, next thing you know ‘prince charming’ is paying the bill, she is heading to his place so you part ways.
You have potentials, I mean you are beautiful, but you discard them all you have identified your prey. You have identified the guy you want, you want him, your friend’s boyfriend, his perfect for you….but his dating your friend, so maybe it’s not right…. Until they start having issues, nothing out of the ordinary, couples quarrel, friends do too I mean every relationship has ups and downs,…but for you this is an opportunity. Maybe she is just not right for him, you console yourself. She makes an even worse mistake and goes with you to his place, you now know where he lives, nice place, expensive taste, you fit right in …. Win for you, in life if you want something, you should up and take it, stop lying to yourself wolf!
They haven’t been together long and besides they are having issues too early in their relationship, they clearly are not meant to be…still lying to yourself, but you want a goodnight sleep, so have at it wolf. Your friend trusts you, she confides in you how her relationship is going, and you poison her mind, you sugar coat the situation. You make her paranoid and insecure. Why shouldn’t she trust you, she believes you want the best for her just as she would you if the tables were turned. But that’s not the case, you just want to feed on your prey…..
They eventually break up, pretender that you are your right by her side, comforting as she cries her eyes out, telling her she deserves better…. And she believes you, what she deserves is a better friend, something she learns the hard way. Gossip travels fast, especially if it’s about relationships, so she hears your dating her ex….. How?? Why?? She doesn’t want to believe it. You are avoiding her, even you are not that shameless, so you cut ties. Finally she sees the two of you together, having lunch, the same place where she introduced you two. You know her, you can see the hurt, the betrayal, the pain in her eyes she never liked drama so she just walks away… You know she’s devastated, but I mean she will meet someone else, there are so many men. Why didn’t you tell yourself that wolf??
You got the man, you lost the friend……congratulations! Some things cannot be forced, you just offered yourself to a broken man for free. I mean you poisoned his mind about your friend, then delivered yourself at his door step…..for free. Why would he reject that, his a man!!! No chase, no time spent, no effort, too easy, and that’s what you will always be to him…. Too easy. A real man, note I said real man, wants to find his mate and not be found. Plus he is not blind, he sees you are not loyal. You betrayed your very close friend, to benefit yourself, he sees that. So my dear wolf, you are only temporary until someone he wants intrigues him, catches his attention.
Are you sleeping better now that you broke the trust of a long-term friend?? Was it worth it….. He had very little respect for you, finally he left you. Did you really expect a happily ever after. Marriage proposal, children then a happy life?? Am so sorry, what goes around comes around……but for you that’s no big deal you can always snatch another ‘boyfriend’. Funny though, when your done hunting, and have been hunted, found someone whose just right, someone who completes you, they understand you better than anyone else. Just then, you meet a wolf whose skill is on another level. Your ‘prince charming’ is gone, snatched by that ‘friend’ you confided in. Now you feel what you made others feel…. It’s not a good feeling now is it?? Karma is a bitch!
This wolf…..She’s right there smiling with you, pretending that’s she is happy for you, and this guy you never shut up about. She is forming a friendship with your man, or so you think. She is always available if the plan includes him she is smart, she is a planner, she takes her time. He could be your husband of five or more years, this wolf knows no limits. She identifies her prey and does not back down. She’s a wolf, in sheep’s clothing of course, and she’s clothed perfectly.
They say in a group of five friends there is one wolf, she always wants what you have, it seems much better. So??…. Open your eyes, don’t be stupid but don’t be naive either…..you have that intuition use it. Not everybody wants you happy. This type capitalize on themselves only. Don’t be insecure and paranoid, a relationship is for two, build something together with walls so high, wolfs can only admire and dream about. They are always amongst you!!! Lurking….